God loves the world He made, He also loves man in general, the jewel in the crown of His creation, and hopes with all His heart humans will respond to the free gift of eternal life through Christ’s sacrificial death on the Cross.
God does not offer unconditional love, to be a true child of God you must accept the conditions set forth in the word of God, the Holy and inerrant Bible. God’s greatest love is for His children and it comes with many conditions and a high cost.
Judgment doesn’t reflect God’s love
God wants all of mankind to come to Him through belief in His Son, Jesus Christ, to obtain the peace that passes human understanding. No person or circumstance is so horrible that God will not forgive if true repentance is fully evident to Him. We must not “judge” each other’s commitment to a life in Christ, because we are all at different stages of development in following Christ.
We are here to help each other stay on the difficult path, not to criticize each other when we backslide.
If you read some of the signs, you will know if you are sincere in your commitment. You will feel the Holy Spirit whisper stop or go ahead, follow his lead. We know each other by the fruit we produce.